It seems to me that the biggest obstacle we all face is when we have to change a topic of conversation. When you become a topic of discussion, your friends and family are going to want to know what you’re up to and they want to be part of the conversation about it. When you tell an interesting story about something, it is so much easier to discuss and debate.
The problem can be especially difficult for an older person. You may have a lot of stories to tell your kids and grandkids about how you used to date your dad or how things used to be before you lost your job. You may also have a lot of stories to tell about your life in the past. You may be the only person who remembers the specific details of your life or the things you used to say on a regular basis.
For those of you who grew up in the ’90’s and are still in touch with the ’80’s, you will likely remember the term “break up”. Your parents may have told you to “put your hair up” when they were arguing because it was the only way to communicate without words.
Yeah, you may have one or two stories about your past that you have never told people, but the fact is that we are not talking about your history in the past. We are talking about your present. We are talking about your current life.
Yeah, it’s nice to be able to talk about your current life when you’re not talking about your past. But there are a few problems with this. The first is that the past is just as present as the future. We are the same people. We are not going to be having our hair up any time soon, but let’s face it. You’re not having your hair up today, either.
The problem with this is that it is a false equivalency. If we are talking about the past, we are not talking about the future. If we are talking about the future, we are not talking about the past. This makes life hard and difficult. It may seem like a simple point, but it is very important to learn and understand that the past is not the future.
I get it. It just seems like we are so used to talking about the past that we are not able to make eye contact and truly look into the future. As a result, we are all living in a sort of mental time loop. I am not saying that we should be hiding our thoughts, but that we should be able to change them if we really need to.
It is important to learn and understand that the past is not the future. As a result, we are all living in a sort of mental time loop. I am not saying that we should be hiding our thoughts, but that we should be able to change them if we really need to.
For example, if you were a senior citizen living in a retirement community, you could have a very good life, but you would probably not be able to attend a funeral. I know a couple people who have been married only a few years, but I know people who have been married for many years. They have great lives, but they are living in a sort of mental time loop.
This is a problem, because not everyone is aware of this part of their lives. It can be hard to learn to be more aware of ourselves and what happens next.