I know that when I speak to a group of people, I often share myself with them, but it is my job to take care of myself, and I’d rather hear from people who are really there for me.
Speaking to a group can be a great way to find out what people really think about you. You can also be a great way to find out what people think about you, because you never know who you’re going to run across in a crowd. Of course, I do realize that when I speak to a group, I will probably be the only one who knows what I’m talking about. Maybe I’m really boring.
The funny thing is that when I speak to people, I realize that I probably don’t know what Im talking about. Because Im talking to people, I don’t know that I’m actually talking to someone. I just think that Im talking to someone, so I use my own voice to hear what Im talking about. I don’t think Im really saying anything though.
I think that a lot of people who get themselves into conversations that they can’t seem to get out of are afraid of being alone or afraid of being misunderstood. They avoid speaking up because they’re afraid to lose face or to be thought stupid. They fear being judged or laughed at, so they avoid being the first to speak up. I think this is the sort of thing that we need to change.
So much of the conversation I’m having, I’m just trying to be heard. I’m not trying to be understood, I’m trying to be heard. I’m not trying to be a prick (and Im not trying to be some sort of wannabe hipster either), Im just trying to be understood. Most of my time spent online I’ve been either being understood or ignored.
I think this is the same sort of thing that we should be doing. Whether it’s making sure that those whose voices we can’t hear get heard or speaking up ourselves (or, on the contrary, not speaking up).
Talking up yourself is a good thing. It shows that you care about being heard. It shows that you aren’t a prick and you aren’t some sort of wannabe hipster either. It shows that you are intelligent and you aren’t some sort of wannabe hipster either.
To be clear, this is just a thought I had while I was sitting at my computer. I don’t want to sound like I’m saying this isn’t good or bad. It just is, and that’s something we should all strive for. I’m not saying we shouldn’t speak up for ourselves though. I’m saying that we should just all be quiet and try to be nice.
Speaking up for ourselves is important. But speaking up for yourself is also important. We should all strive to speak up for ourselves, and we should all strive to keep our voices at the lowest volume possible. If you feel like you need to speak up, you can always talk to a friend or your partner. But if you are just being nice, you can always just be quiet. The point is, don’t let the situation influence the way you speak up.
The issue, however, is that people who speak up for themselves are often not as strong as they think they are and people who don’t speak up for themselves are often less strong than they think they are. But speaking up for yourself is much harder and you often have to be extra careful because the people around you are watching you. We’re talking about speech, as opposed to speech-like behavior, which is much more common.